So last weekend was a blur...literally. I got fucked up on Saturday. Not sure how because I didn't seem to drink extraordinary, however, the way the night ended there was no doubt...yours truly was fucked.
Friday I was up with HBMilf till about 4:30 am and didn't get much sleep. I was going to chill on Saturday, however, Natural texted me and I couldn't resist.
So I headed downtown to my wing's crib (which is a great location due to its walking distance from the major clubs). We decided to hit a cool lounge for a few whorrly pops then head over to the usually hot spot.
I'm spottin' my usually dress shirt with slack tie and sick jeans look. The tie is hot and I guess you could say I was mildly peacocking.
At the lounge my wing and I are just chillin when this HB9 steps up and starts talking to me. This girl was fucking cute. Amazing body, tongue ring, dark hair and big brown eyes. The topic turned to the fact it is her B-Day. She intros herself and we start to chat. The IOIs are there and I'm thinking it is on. I noticed the corner of my eye she is with some chode.
I run my 50/100 routine. She is hooked. I back turn her as she is shocked about the game and starts telling her chodefriend how crazy cool it was. The guy gets jealous and pulls her away. At this point, I am starting to get drunk and let it go.....FUCK....she was cute.
We decide to bounce to the local hotspot. Those that have been around the bar scene like yours truly knows what to expect at different spots. Some are Class, others are Ass. This was the latter. Everyone usually gets fucked up and line dances (hardcore country theme).
At this point, I am hammered. I am walking around like some harpooned whale. I don't really open any sets. I am social and talking to everyone. Near the end of the night, I end up on the dancefloor with some chick. We dance, we kiss. The night ends and she said she needs to bounce.
I grasp for the number close and get it.
I wake up the next morning not remembering what the hell happened. I don't remember the girl or most of the night. I think I might have dreamed it up. However, I check my pockets and find a women's name and number in my pocket. I don't remember what she looks like. I think she had nice tits but I can't be sure.
A few days go by and I decide to call her. She doesn't return the call. I figure fuck it, I wait another few days and leave another (and yes last) message. Usually if they don't call back the next day on the first message, I drop it. However, I read that you should try twice.
I wake up this morning with the following text message,
"Sorry I was drunk on sat. I am interested in someone else. Please don't call. I am not a bitch"
Hilarious. I am sitting there with my dick in my hands.
What went wrong. You get a girl's number and you make out with her. She should want to see you again right? The answer is that it Depends. This situation was a classic one:
- If you have a quick hook up on a dancefloor with no Qualification or Comfort it will end there. This was solely based on Attraction and nothing else. She wasn't invested in the relationship, thus it was just a typically getting drunk and making out with some random guy scenario....
I was too drunk to game and did not follow up accordingly. Therefore, I am left with nothing but a piece of paper. A tough, but true lesson....
I guess the bad guy doesn't always win...
Friday, August 31, 2007
Saturday, August 25, 2007
I haven't updated my blog for a while, however, I went out last weekend and will report accordingly. Out with my faithful wing Natural, it was a solid night. I was getting AIs like crazy. The cute bartender was giving me eyes, the lone wolves, everybody...it was great. Usually Natural is getting all the attention so it was good for a change.I didn't really open up that many sets. There was a few warm sets that came over and talked to me and I think I could have gotten somewhere with them. However, kept moving.
I was at the bar and noticed a cutie beside me. I opened over the shoulder with 2 time kiss opener. It hooked. I tried to move into Strawberry fields, but she was analyzing it wayyyy too much. It was killing the vibe. So I just chilled out talking about normal things and kept decent body language. At one point I ejected.Near the end of the night, I spotted her and re-opened.
We continued to talk and build comfort. She was divorced, has 2 kids and is a sarogite (sp?) mother of another. A lot of fucking baggage...however she was very cute. She was a 7.5
I ended up number closing and bounced out.I setup the Day2 and I thought she would flake...but she didn't. I had her drive to my house and check out my crib. It is a nice house and a DHV in itself. We then went to a lounge. We sat there most of the night talking and I was trying to run some game but she was hard to analyze. Cube didn't work, Strawberry fields, etc...My 50/100 Routine worked and hooked pretty well. I was running some mild kino escalation game but she was kind of stand offish. Anyways, we go to shoot pool and bantered.
She came back to my house and I told her that she could only come in for a little while. We ended up sitting on my couch and watching stand up comedy on the TV. I started kino escalating and it worked well. In the club, I couldn't get a kiss on the cheek. Now I was getting fully make out and it started to get hot and heavy. The LMR came up and I didn't fight it....why? I wasn't sure if I wanted to get involved with this one. I toyed around with her for a bit and I knew I could have blasted through the LMR...it was a safe bet. Instead we chilled.My comfort game is extremely tight. I have the gift of intimacy. Couple that with some strong kiss game (sounds gay, but thats what I call it) and you can instantly have anyone under your spell.
Overall, what did I learn?
1) This chick needed isolation in order to properly escalate anything. My pad was perfect
2) Day 2s - this was perfect. I setup it up so she had to come to my house. We went to a low key place to talk. This gives them the impression that you want to at least take them out instead of staying at your place. The couch with the stand up comedy on the TV was perfect. I could escalate the kino and it was natural and fun
3) Phone Game - when I called her to setup the date I told her right away what we were doing. I was cocky/funny and it worked well with the frame
4) If you want someone to fall for you - both physically and mentally you need to create intimacy. You need to take things slow...touching her all over her face and hair, etc...every movement must be made like you were in a movie.
The problem with all of this is that she is hooked. If you run tight intimacy game you can have any girl completely head over heels in love with you. The common drawback most PUAs will tell you is that you are seen as a boyfriend/husband material and they will hold back sex.
I disagree. What ends up happening is that they are invested in you. It is up to you to regulate the exchange. If they hold back, simply freeze them out. The fact they like you so much means they don't want to lose you....hence leveraging the freeze out much more effectively.
She called me twice today and wants me to come out with her friends. I don't want to screw her up. Its a bad situation (with kids) and I have morals....go figure.
I was at the bar and noticed a cutie beside me. I opened over the shoulder with 2 time kiss opener. It hooked. I tried to move into Strawberry fields, but she was analyzing it wayyyy too much. It was killing the vibe. So I just chilled out talking about normal things and kept decent body language. At one point I ejected.Near the end of the night, I spotted her and re-opened.
We continued to talk and build comfort. She was divorced, has 2 kids and is a sarogite (sp?) mother of another. A lot of fucking baggage...however she was very cute. She was a 7.5
I ended up number closing and bounced out.I setup the Day2 and I thought she would flake...but she didn't. I had her drive to my house and check out my crib. It is a nice house and a DHV in itself. We then went to a lounge. We sat there most of the night talking and I was trying to run some game but she was hard to analyze. Cube didn't work, Strawberry fields, etc...My 50/100 Routine worked and hooked pretty well. I was running some mild kino escalation game but she was kind of stand offish. Anyways, we go to shoot pool and bantered.
She came back to my house and I told her that she could only come in for a little while. We ended up sitting on my couch and watching stand up comedy on the TV. I started kino escalating and it worked well. In the club, I couldn't get a kiss on the cheek. Now I was getting fully make out and it started to get hot and heavy. The LMR came up and I didn't fight it....why? I wasn't sure if I wanted to get involved with this one. I toyed around with her for a bit and I knew I could have blasted through the LMR...it was a safe bet. Instead we chilled.My comfort game is extremely tight. I have the gift of intimacy. Couple that with some strong kiss game (sounds gay, but thats what I call it) and you can instantly have anyone under your spell.
Overall, what did I learn?
1) This chick needed isolation in order to properly escalate anything. My pad was perfect
2) Day 2s - this was perfect. I setup it up so she had to come to my house. We went to a low key place to talk. This gives them the impression that you want to at least take them out instead of staying at your place. The couch with the stand up comedy on the TV was perfect. I could escalate the kino and it was natural and fun
3) Phone Game - when I called her to setup the date I told her right away what we were doing. I was cocky/funny and it worked well with the frame
4) If you want someone to fall for you - both physically and mentally you need to create intimacy. You need to take things slow...touching her all over her face and hair, etc...every movement must be made like you were in a movie.
The problem with all of this is that she is hooked. If you run tight intimacy game you can have any girl completely head over heels in love with you. The common drawback most PUAs will tell you is that you are seen as a boyfriend/husband material and they will hold back sex.
I disagree. What ends up happening is that they are invested in you. It is up to you to regulate the exchange. If they hold back, simply freeze them out. The fact they like you so much means they don't want to lose you....hence leveraging the freeze out much more effectively.
She called me twice today and wants me to come out with her friends. I don't want to screw her up. Its a bad situation (with kids) and I have morals....go figure.
Sunday, August 5, 2007
FR - HB Soccer Chick and SOCIAL PROOF
So today I am recovering from a stiff night. It was a long weekend and my wing and I decided to go to the local hotspot. I knew it was going to be messy. My wing brought along his female friend who was cute. She was short but had a cute face. However, within the first few minutes I knew she had it bad for my wing.
What you have to know about him is that he is natural. He is a good looking dude and seems to always get approach invitations. Its sick and annoying because if they don't approach him, he won't open. That is why he loves to hang with yours truly.
Anyways, he just wants to be her friend and for some reason she still hangs off him...
The three of us get to the bar and grab seats in the prime spot. I start talking to the dudes beside us and start pounding down the drinks. Before long, a few of my wing's friends come by to say hi. I start talking to everyone. At this point our location went from three people hanging out to about ten. Then my female wing invited her friends to come down. Once they get there, we have swelled up to 15 people. I was introducing everyone and merging sets...the social proof was going through the roof.
At this point I am in a lazy mood. I haven't opened up a cold set. However, I am working with the "warm" sets (warm set - a set of people you have been introduced to from a mutual friend).
The female wing's friends are not that great. I would rate them as 6/7/7.5 I start gaming them through my ESP routine and they start to go nuts.
At one point we all go to another part of the bar where I get locked in. I start running strawberry fields and have the 3 set surrounding me. The HB7 is throwing out IOIs so I start working on her. Not sure what else I did but before long she is touching me. I callibrate by giving her my "Cheek Kiss" routine. Its on. At one point we separate, then when she comes back into my set we start making out. She plays soccer and I keep teasing her that I should stay away from her because she will want to kick my balls.
I don't push the interaction I just go with the flow. Nothing really materializes except for the club make outs. I didn't try for the F-close or even number close.
However, the one thing I did very well last night was gaining social proof. This is key. The bad news was that I didn't work any cold sets.
Overall, I take my victories where I can and learn from the experience.
T.
What you have to know about him is that he is natural. He is a good looking dude and seems to always get approach invitations. Its sick and annoying because if they don't approach him, he won't open. That is why he loves to hang with yours truly.
Anyways, he just wants to be her friend and for some reason she still hangs off him...
The three of us get to the bar and grab seats in the prime spot. I start talking to the dudes beside us and start pounding down the drinks. Before long, a few of my wing's friends come by to say hi. I start talking to everyone. At this point our location went from three people hanging out to about ten. Then my female wing invited her friends to come down. Once they get there, we have swelled up to 15 people. I was introducing everyone and merging sets...the social proof was going through the roof.
At this point I am in a lazy mood. I haven't opened up a cold set. However, I am working with the "warm" sets (warm set - a set of people you have been introduced to from a mutual friend).
The female wing's friends are not that great. I would rate them as 6/7/7.5 I start gaming them through my ESP routine and they start to go nuts.
At one point we all go to another part of the bar where I get locked in. I start running strawberry fields and have the 3 set surrounding me. The HB7 is throwing out IOIs so I start working on her. Not sure what else I did but before long she is touching me. I callibrate by giving her my "Cheek Kiss" routine. Its on. At one point we separate, then when she comes back into my set we start making out. She plays soccer and I keep teasing her that I should stay away from her because she will want to kick my balls.
I don't push the interaction I just go with the flow. Nothing really materializes except for the club make outs. I didn't try for the F-close or even number close.
However, the one thing I did very well last night was gaining social proof. This is key. The bad news was that I didn't work any cold sets.
Overall, I take my victories where I can and learn from the experience.
T.
LR and FR - Owning the Venue
This was a LR I posted on the lounge a few days ago. I saw it more as a learning experience. As a result, I posted it in the "Main" section:
So we just finished a long out-of-town meeting and are looking to light it up somewhere. We walk into a place that is supposed to be jumpin' on Wednesday's because it is Ladies Night. Typically, when I hear, "Ladies Night" at a bar my Oscar Meyer Weiner alarm goes off and I am concerned that it might be a sausagefest.Quite the opposite. We walk in and immediately notice it is rammed with hotties with "Tig Bitties" (aka big titties). However, we immediate notice we are out of place. It is a Western bar and yours truly is sportin' shirt and a tie from that day's meeting. As soon as we walk in AMOGs are telling us to take off the tie. I refuse and actually straigthen it up.We immediately decide that we have take this place over. We notice all the women are on the dance floor. We decide to take over the dance floor. Fast forward a half hour later and we absolutely own it. HBs are grabbing us by the ties, touching us in naughty places and basically dry humping our legs. The staff and dj are loving us and actually offer us guest list next time and free drinks.So how did 4 guys with shirts and ties turn into the biggest pimps the place has ever seen? Looking back there were a few consistent themes:1) When we were on the dancefloor, we weren't looking around at anyone else - we were the entertainment2) We made a circle and just danced like we didn't give a fuzz. 3) We made a lot of noise and just started having fun4) 4 guys in ties in a western bar having the time of their lives just naturally begs people to want to join the fun.5) Girls opened us right, left and center...but why?I think the answer to point 5 was because women are naturally comfortable on the dancefloor. That is their domain. As a result, they can become aggressive quickly. The key is get them to be so swept up with the fun they don't want it to end. What were the AMOGs doing?- Staying around the dancefloor looking for girls to grind. They looked as uncomfortable and out of place as a hooker in church. - After these guys noticed how well we were doing, they started hanging out with us and giving us shots and hi-fives.The 4 set in the pic was location bounced back to the hotel. I didn't work the comfort game tight enough, so I didn't f-close the one on the end till Day 2.
A great night had by all...T.
So we just finished a long out-of-town meeting and are looking to light it up somewhere. We walk into a place that is supposed to be jumpin' on Wednesday's because it is Ladies Night. Typically, when I hear, "Ladies Night" at a bar my Oscar Meyer Weiner alarm goes off and I am concerned that it might be a sausagefest.Quite the opposite. We walk in and immediately notice it is rammed with hotties with "Tig Bitties" (aka big titties). However, we immediate notice we are out of place. It is a Western bar and yours truly is sportin' shirt and a tie from that day's meeting. As soon as we walk in AMOGs are telling us to take off the tie. I refuse and actually straigthen it up.We immediately decide that we have take this place over. We notice all the women are on the dance floor. We decide to take over the dance floor. Fast forward a half hour later and we absolutely own it. HBs are grabbing us by the ties, touching us in naughty places and basically dry humping our legs. The staff and dj are loving us and actually offer us guest list next time and free drinks.So how did 4 guys with shirts and ties turn into the biggest pimps the place has ever seen? Looking back there were a few consistent themes:1) When we were on the dancefloor, we weren't looking around at anyone else - we were the entertainment2) We made a circle and just danced like we didn't give a fuzz. 3) We made a lot of noise and just started having fun4) 4 guys in ties in a western bar having the time of their lives just naturally begs people to want to join the fun.5) Girls opened us right, left and center...but why?I think the answer to point 5 was because women are naturally comfortable on the dancefloor. That is their domain. As a result, they can become aggressive quickly. The key is get them to be so swept up with the fun they don't want it to end. What were the AMOGs doing?- Staying around the dancefloor looking for girls to grind. They looked as uncomfortable and out of place as a hooker in church. - After these guys noticed how well we were doing, they started hanging out with us and giving us shots and hi-fives.The 4 set in the pic was location bounced back to the hotel. I didn't work the comfort game tight enough, so I didn't f-close the one on the end till Day 2.
A great night had by all...T.
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
PUA BLOGS
I haven't seen everyone's however, I do enjoy both Captain Jacks and Sinns.
Why?
A few different reasons. However, if you have ever downloaded CJ's pdf file of all his posts you will know why. He breaks it down and makes it seem entirely effortless. It is motivating.
I will be in set and start running the routines and become in the zone...you notice the IOIs and its on.
Sinns - Rated as one of the best in the biz. I haven't seen him in action however, I have heard the stories. His blog represents the sheer representation of someone who has been there from virtually day 1. He has evolved and you have to respect that.
Why did I start a blog? I am not a famous PUA. Nor do I have books, ebooks, cds or anything else to my name.
I would have to say because I have been interested in the subject of pick up for a long time. Its what I love talking about. I am not trying to get back at an ex girlfriend, wife, or lover. This is me. I have always been a player.
I cheated on my first HB9.5 girlfriend over 10 times with 6 different girls. Why?
Because committment is not what I want. Before the community, I used to tell girls what I thought they wanted to hear. The perfect boyfriend....that was me...but it was a lie.
You can take or leave my advice. That is your choice. I won't lie, I will give you the straight goods. I need help that is why I am taking a bootcamp. I will be poked and proded by some of the best pick up artists in the world. This is what it is all about.
I plan to take 200% advantage of the bootcamp. I don't need to be pushed into sets...I will already be there.
T.
Why?
A few different reasons. However, if you have ever downloaded CJ's pdf file of all his posts you will know why. He breaks it down and makes it seem entirely effortless. It is motivating.
I will be in set and start running the routines and become in the zone...you notice the IOIs and its on.
Sinns - Rated as one of the best in the biz. I haven't seen him in action however, I have heard the stories. His blog represents the sheer representation of someone who has been there from virtually day 1. He has evolved and you have to respect that.
Why did I start a blog? I am not a famous PUA. Nor do I have books, ebooks, cds or anything else to my name.
I would have to say because I have been interested in the subject of pick up for a long time. Its what I love talking about. I am not trying to get back at an ex girlfriend, wife, or lover. This is me. I have always been a player.
I cheated on my first HB9.5 girlfriend over 10 times with 6 different girls. Why?
Because committment is not what I want. Before the community, I used to tell girls what I thought they wanted to hear. The perfect boyfriend....that was me...but it was a lie.
You can take or leave my advice. That is your choice. I won't lie, I will give you the straight goods. I need help that is why I am taking a bootcamp. I will be poked and proded by some of the best pick up artists in the world. This is what it is all about.
I plan to take 200% advantage of the bootcamp. I don't need to be pushed into sets...I will already be there.
T.
A GREAT OPENER
I know almost every fucking routine. I am serious. Am I a keyboard jockey? Far from it...to actually create my own blog is a stretch. I hate emails and text messages. I love the bar and being in field.
I developed this one opener and I find it works extremely well....very simple and gets the conversation going:
El Tibs - Oh My God
Woman - What?
El Tibs - This is soooo embarassing! I was going to wear the exact same thing tonight!
Woman - Laughs her ass off
Setting - I like to work from the bar. The HBs are getting a drink. I wait till they have their drink and open it with the classic "over the shoulder". After I say, "OMG" I turn back to the bar to put my drink down. I then turn back around and continue with the second line.
Never fails. You have to be in the mindset. But from there I routine stack into Style's 2 time kiss opener...no hestitation just right into it.
The target will relax and you can continue on from there.
Try it out.
T.
I developed this one opener and I find it works extremely well....very simple and gets the conversation going:
El Tibs - Oh My God
Woman - What?
El Tibs - This is soooo embarassing! I was going to wear the exact same thing tonight!
Woman - Laughs her ass off
Setting - I like to work from the bar. The HBs are getting a drink. I wait till they have their drink and open it with the classic "over the shoulder". After I say, "OMG" I turn back to the bar to put my drink down. I then turn back around and continue with the second line.
Never fails. You have to be in the mindset. But from there I routine stack into Style's 2 time kiss opener...no hestitation just right into it.
The target will relax and you can continue on from there.
Try it out.
T.
Back in the Waters
You missed me didn't you. Yeah, I know I haven't posted in a while. I haven't been sitting here with my dick in my hands. Things have been busy. As usual your favourite shark has been on the road bustin' heads and makin' deals.
What the hell is happening with the weight? I have been suffering. I have fallen and I can't get up. I have about 6 weeks left to the bootcamp and I haven't done much. I have probably gained a lot of weight and the motivation is low.
However, what makes a champion is not how he acts when winning, but when he is losing. I am going to keep pushing. Nutrition keeps kicking the shat out of me....I have been to this movie before, I have to get back to being focused.
T.
What the hell is happening with the weight? I have been suffering. I have fallen and I can't get up. I have about 6 weeks left to the bootcamp and I haven't done much. I have probably gained a lot of weight and the motivation is low.
However, what makes a champion is not how he acts when winning, but when he is losing. I am going to keep pushing. Nutrition keeps kicking the shat out of me....I have been to this movie before, I have to get back to being focused.
T.
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