I haven't seen everyone's however, I do enjoy both Captain Jacks and Sinns.
Why?
A few different reasons. However, if you have ever downloaded CJ's pdf file of all his posts you will know why. He breaks it down and makes it seem entirely effortless. It is motivating.
I will be in set and start running the routines and become in the zone...you notice the IOIs and its on.
Sinns - Rated as one of the best in the biz. I haven't seen him in action however, I have heard the stories. His blog represents the sheer representation of someone who has been there from virtually day 1. He has evolved and you have to respect that.
Why did I start a blog? I am not a famous PUA. Nor do I have books, ebooks, cds or anything else to my name.
I would have to say because I have been interested in the subject of pick up for a long time. Its what I love talking about. I am not trying to get back at an ex girlfriend, wife, or lover. This is me. I have always been a player.
I cheated on my first HB9.5 girlfriend over 10 times with 6 different girls. Why?
Because committment is not what I want. Before the community, I used to tell girls what I thought they wanted to hear. The perfect boyfriend....that was me...but it was a lie.
You can take or leave my advice. That is your choice. I won't lie, I will give you the straight goods. I need help that is why I am taking a bootcamp. I will be poked and proded by some of the best pick up artists in the world. This is what it is all about.
I plan to take 200% advantage of the bootcamp. I don't need to be pushed into sets...I will already be there.
T.
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
A GREAT OPENER
I know almost every fucking routine. I am serious. Am I a keyboard jockey? Far from it...to actually create my own blog is a stretch. I hate emails and text messages. I love the bar and being in field.
I developed this one opener and I find it works extremely well....very simple and gets the conversation going:
El Tibs - Oh My God
Woman - What?
El Tibs - This is soooo embarassing! I was going to wear the exact same thing tonight!
Woman - Laughs her ass off
Setting - I like to work from the bar. The HBs are getting a drink. I wait till they have their drink and open it with the classic "over the shoulder". After I say, "OMG" I turn back to the bar to put my drink down. I then turn back around and continue with the second line.
Never fails. You have to be in the mindset. But from there I routine stack into Style's 2 time kiss opener...no hestitation just right into it.
The target will relax and you can continue on from there.
Try it out.
T.
I developed this one opener and I find it works extremely well....very simple and gets the conversation going:
El Tibs - Oh My God
Woman - What?
El Tibs - This is soooo embarassing! I was going to wear the exact same thing tonight!
Woman - Laughs her ass off
Setting - I like to work from the bar. The HBs are getting a drink. I wait till they have their drink and open it with the classic "over the shoulder". After I say, "OMG" I turn back to the bar to put my drink down. I then turn back around and continue with the second line.
Never fails. You have to be in the mindset. But from there I routine stack into Style's 2 time kiss opener...no hestitation just right into it.
The target will relax and you can continue on from there.
Try it out.
T.
Back in the Waters
You missed me didn't you. Yeah, I know I haven't posted in a while. I haven't been sitting here with my dick in my hands. Things have been busy. As usual your favourite shark has been on the road bustin' heads and makin' deals.
What the hell is happening with the weight? I have been suffering. I have fallen and I can't get up. I have about 6 weeks left to the bootcamp and I haven't done much. I have probably gained a lot of weight and the motivation is low.
However, what makes a champion is not how he acts when winning, but when he is losing. I am going to keep pushing. Nutrition keeps kicking the shat out of me....I have been to this movie before, I have to get back to being focused.
T.
What the hell is happening with the weight? I have been suffering. I have fallen and I can't get up. I have about 6 weeks left to the bootcamp and I haven't done much. I have probably gained a lot of weight and the motivation is low.
However, what makes a champion is not how he acts when winning, but when he is losing. I am going to keep pushing. Nutrition keeps kicking the shat out of me....I have been to this movie before, I have to get back to being focused.
T.
Monday, July 16, 2007
Monday July 16th, 2007:
Made it through my first day of training. It consists of 1 1/2 hours at the gym and another 1/2 hour when I get back home from work. My biggest problem is not the training but the nutrition. I have a heart on for fried food and could literally dry hump a pizza right about now.
My job doesn't help. I am a rising star at a large company. I spend a lot of time on the road. I am off tomorrow for another 3 day road trip. Keeping focused will be hard to say the least.
The idea is to stay locked up for the next 5 weeks. My first official weigh in will be in 5 weeks (August 19th). Why so long? I learned a long time ago that the first thing to do is to setup a routine...don't get bogged down on the scale. You need to be consistent.
I will do what I can to stay focused. So what motivates me? - WOMEN. I get pumped just thinking about walking into a club with tight game and a tight image. Imagine, having women eye hump you as you walk into the bar...anyone can do it. It just takes dedication and will.
The other motivation is my trip after the bootcamp. I am going back to my home town. I haven't been back in over 3 years.
When people ask I say I am busy at work. However, the truth is that I am embarassed. I was the good looking guy in high school. Going back even to see my family is like a high school reunion, and no one wants to be the guy that let himself go. I have spent the last 3 Christmas' alone...cue the ackward silence.
Outside of my health, I am a success. I have a sick house, a nice company car and stock options. I just need to get a Playboy lifestyle and I will be set.
I better get going. I have a 5 am date at the gym and I need my beauty sleep.
T.
PS - You may wonder why I call myself, "El Tiburon". A few years ago, I went to Mexico on Spring Break. It got wild and I ended up making out with 12 girls in one night. The next day I went into town and the locals were staring at me. I had a shit load of hickies all over my neck. They started calling me, "Shark Bite".
However, after I explained to them what happened they changed the name to:
"El Tiburon" aka the "SHARK".
Made it through my first day of training. It consists of 1 1/2 hours at the gym and another 1/2 hour when I get back home from work. My biggest problem is not the training but the nutrition. I have a heart on for fried food and could literally dry hump a pizza right about now.
My job doesn't help. I am a rising star at a large company. I spend a lot of time on the road. I am off tomorrow for another 3 day road trip. Keeping focused will be hard to say the least.
The idea is to stay locked up for the next 5 weeks. My first official weigh in will be in 5 weeks (August 19th). Why so long? I learned a long time ago that the first thing to do is to setup a routine...don't get bogged down on the scale. You need to be consistent.
I will do what I can to stay focused. So what motivates me? - WOMEN. I get pumped just thinking about walking into a club with tight game and a tight image. Imagine, having women eye hump you as you walk into the bar...anyone can do it. It just takes dedication and will.
The other motivation is my trip after the bootcamp. I am going back to my home town. I haven't been back in over 3 years.
When people ask I say I am busy at work. However, the truth is that I am embarassed. I was the good looking guy in high school. Going back even to see my family is like a high school reunion, and no one wants to be the guy that let himself go. I have spent the last 3 Christmas' alone...cue the ackward silence.
Outside of my health, I am a success. I have a sick house, a nice company car and stock options. I just need to get a Playboy lifestyle and I will be set.
I better get going. I have a 5 am date at the gym and I need my beauty sleep.
T.
PS - You may wonder why I call myself, "El Tiburon". A few years ago, I went to Mexico on Spring Break. It got wild and I ended up making out with 12 girls in one night. The next day I went into town and the locals were staring at me. I had a shit load of hickies all over my neck. They started calling me, "Shark Bite".
However, after I explained to them what happened they changed the name to:
"El Tiburon" aka the "SHARK".
First Official Entry
Sunday, July 15, 2007
July 15th,This marks the first official entry. My goal of this blog is to openly talk about my experiences that have led me to this stage in my life. This blog is not only about pick up, but also my journey through life's own sticking points.The hope is that someone might come across this and be in the same stage of their life where they are at a cross roads and needs some guidance. I am not looking for subscribers or fan club or anything else along those lines. I want to help myself and in the process provide some help to others.
A little about myself:
I am in my late 20's and have been single for a long time. I guess you could say I am somewhat of a natural. I was extremely popular in high school and college. I have always been interested in the dymanics between men and women so I learned quite a bit through field work and general reading. However, over the last few years a have fallen on hard times. Not financially, but physically. I always struggled with my weight so it has been an issue with me. I am about 60 pounds over my goal weight....
Before you start to picture a guy waddling around in nothing but sweat pants and a smile, I most point out I do have a special talent - I have the gift of style. I know how to present myself so I am dressed fashionable and can hide my problem areas. For the most part, if you saw me you would think that I am a good looking guy that knows how to dress. Which is cool, however, it causes a limiting belief when trying to pickup.
When my weight was under control, I received a lot of Approach Invitations...it was great because I knew I could always go to the bar and pickup (this was before I even knew about the Community). I always considered looks extremely important so when I didn't feel confident, I wouldn't pickup. I can't lie I have let myself go over the past 5 years. This has led me to hiding out and not going out.
I still feel looks are important in pickup. This goes against pua-logic, however, I have seen first hand how easy it is to pickup if you are good looking. Most of my friends are good looking and do extremely well. So once I started to gain weight, I felt bad hanging around them.I don't believe you have to be Brad P to be successful. However, you need to present your best self. I would rate myself about a 7 at this point when I go out. When everything was clicking I had potential to be a 8.5-9. I hate using numbers, however, I need to be real to myself.
Anyways, like everyone else I was given a copy of the Game and found out about the community. I always checked out the other pua-related websites, however, it wasn't until I read the Game that I understood the process. As a result, I have been working on my routines and approaches and have had some success. I have never been shy about approaching. However, it always seemed like I would open the group and my friends would end up closing one of them....which is like masterbating with a cheese grater, slightly amusing, but more or less painful.
I have read most of the books and know the routines, my next step was to take a bootcamp. So I signed up for one. I have about 8.5 weeks to prepare for it. As a result, my #1 goal is to lose weight (specifically 25 pounds). The reason is that I need to be in the right mindset for it. If I am not feeling confident, I won't approach as much...as a result, I want to "Always Be In Set". To do that I need to be in a confident mood.
Therefore, this blog will be broken down into 2 parts- 1) The Journey Leading to My First Bootcamp and 2) The Journey After the Bootcamp.The first part will focus primarily on my weight loss goals. If I have some interesting stories about PU, I will post. However, it will focus on weight loss at first. Post bootcamp - will focus mainly on my sarges and continued weight loss journey which should last till the end of the year.
T.
July 15th,This marks the first official entry. My goal of this blog is to openly talk about my experiences that have led me to this stage in my life. This blog is not only about pick up, but also my journey through life's own sticking points.The hope is that someone might come across this and be in the same stage of their life where they are at a cross roads and needs some guidance. I am not looking for subscribers or fan club or anything else along those lines. I want to help myself and in the process provide some help to others.
A little about myself:
I am in my late 20's and have been single for a long time. I guess you could say I am somewhat of a natural. I was extremely popular in high school and college. I have always been interested in the dymanics between men and women so I learned quite a bit through field work and general reading. However, over the last few years a have fallen on hard times. Not financially, but physically. I always struggled with my weight so it has been an issue with me. I am about 60 pounds over my goal weight....
Before you start to picture a guy waddling around in nothing but sweat pants and a smile, I most point out I do have a special talent - I have the gift of style. I know how to present myself so I am dressed fashionable and can hide my problem areas. For the most part, if you saw me you would think that I am a good looking guy that knows how to dress. Which is cool, however, it causes a limiting belief when trying to pickup.
When my weight was under control, I received a lot of Approach Invitations...it was great because I knew I could always go to the bar and pickup (this was before I even knew about the Community). I always considered looks extremely important so when I didn't feel confident, I wouldn't pickup. I can't lie I have let myself go over the past 5 years. This has led me to hiding out and not going out.
I still feel looks are important in pickup. This goes against pua-logic, however, I have seen first hand how easy it is to pickup if you are good looking. Most of my friends are good looking and do extremely well. So once I started to gain weight, I felt bad hanging around them.I don't believe you have to be Brad P to be successful. However, you need to present your best self. I would rate myself about a 7 at this point when I go out. When everything was clicking I had potential to be a 8.5-9. I hate using numbers, however, I need to be real to myself.
Anyways, like everyone else I was given a copy of the Game and found out about the community. I always checked out the other pua-related websites, however, it wasn't until I read the Game that I understood the process. As a result, I have been working on my routines and approaches and have had some success. I have never been shy about approaching. However, it always seemed like I would open the group and my friends would end up closing one of them....which is like masterbating with a cheese grater, slightly amusing, but more or less painful.
I have read most of the books and know the routines, my next step was to take a bootcamp. So I signed up for one. I have about 8.5 weeks to prepare for it. As a result, my #1 goal is to lose weight (specifically 25 pounds). The reason is that I need to be in the right mindset for it. If I am not feeling confident, I won't approach as much...as a result, I want to "Always Be In Set". To do that I need to be in a confident mood.
Therefore, this blog will be broken down into 2 parts- 1) The Journey Leading to My First Bootcamp and 2) The Journey After the Bootcamp.The first part will focus primarily on my weight loss goals. If I have some interesting stories about PU, I will post. However, it will focus on weight loss at first. Post bootcamp - will focus mainly on my sarges and continued weight loss journey which should last till the end of the year.
T.
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