Sunday, August 5, 2007

FR - HB Soccer Chick and SOCIAL PROOF

So today I am recovering from a stiff night. It was a long weekend and my wing and I decided to go to the local hotspot. I knew it was going to be messy. My wing brought along his female friend who was cute. She was short but had a cute face. However, within the first few minutes I knew she had it bad for my wing.
What you have to know about him is that he is natural. He is a good looking dude and seems to always get approach invitations. Its sick and annoying because if they don't approach him, he won't open. That is why he loves to hang with yours truly.
Anyways, he just wants to be her friend and for some reason she still hangs off him...

The three of us get to the bar and grab seats in the prime spot. I start talking to the dudes beside us and start pounding down the drinks. Before long, a few of my wing's friends come by to say hi. I start talking to everyone. At this point our location went from three people hanging out to about ten. Then my female wing invited her friends to come down. Once they get there, we have swelled up to 15 people. I was introducing everyone and merging sets...the social proof was going through the roof.

At this point I am in a lazy mood. I haven't opened up a cold set. However, I am working with the "warm" sets (warm set - a set of people you have been introduced to from a mutual friend).

The female wing's friends are not that great. I would rate them as 6/7/7.5 I start gaming them through my ESP routine and they start to go nuts.

At one point we all go to another part of the bar where I get locked in. I start running strawberry fields and have the 3 set surrounding me. The HB7 is throwing out IOIs so I start working on her. Not sure what else I did but before long she is touching me. I callibrate by giving her my "Cheek Kiss" routine. Its on. At one point we separate, then when she comes back into my set we start making out. She plays soccer and I keep teasing her that I should stay away from her because she will want to kick my balls.

I don't push the interaction I just go with the flow. Nothing really materializes except for the club make outs. I didn't try for the F-close or even number close.

However, the one thing I did very well last night was gaining social proof. This is key. The bad news was that I didn't work any cold sets.

Overall, I take my victories where I can and learn from the experience.

T.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

hilarious. kicking balls line lol!

Anonymous said...

Well written article.